the feeling of breaking...post by propdace

have u feel it? like one building... when it start to crack... civil engineer team together with architect team need to do something about it... if nothing been done... all will left is rubble and wire... in collapsed building graveyard.... nothing can be mourn anymore... all is useless... all that left is people to investigate the cause and that all... all that damaged cant be undone... all that destroyed cant be reversed.... all human can do is learn from their mistake... and we tend to forget...

if it is building.... i show the crack..... u can see with your very eye... u dont need to analyze to know something should be done right away.... but that is building.... human.... other story..

u cant see those relationship is cracking... well... in case of husband and wife... boyfriend and girlfriend... sometime it show.... but people tend to oversee this until bad come to worse....

but in close relationship.... those crack is somewhat difficult to be found... those crack can be larger and larger but nobody will acknowledge.... all will deny it... until somebody feeling will be hurt... well... after all that happen... it is more difficult to rebuild those relationship than rebuild the collapsed building... many will choose to walk with their path.... ignoring the other.... and pretend nothing happen... always.... we tend to blame other people and do nothing to make it better....

in case u are wondering what kind of relationship is that.... it is family bond.... siblings.... and parent with their children....

ever take a moment to look behind u.... how we evolve from happy sibling to one that only care nothing but ourselves?? from child who love to be with their parent and suddenly we only choose to see them 2 days in a month?? our reason..... work.... our own family....


yes... we are denying things....


think about it....